The story of a man who “was reported by his mother-in-law”… Seo Jang-hoon, Anger (Ask Me)

A story of wanting to live one’s own life appeared on ‘Ask Anything’.

In the 250th episode of ‘Ask Anything’ aired on KBS Joy on the 15th, parents were Instead, a storyteller appeared who said that she was taking care of her younger sister who suffers from schizophrenia. He explained how his younger sister, who was a high school student, developed symptoms of schizophrenia.

Something bad happened at school and she was unable to attend properly, so her graduation was naturally postponed. Afterwards, when she got angry at home, she became violent. When he became an adult, the two Bodhisattvas responded with surprise when he explained that he suddenly felt thirsty and drank alcohol as if it were water, and that he sometimes broke the air conditioner with a hammer. The storyteller, who said that he often went to the police station because of his younger sister, who not only damaged other people’s cars but also did unpleasant things, and eventually forced her sister to be hospitalized due to alcoholism, responded to Lee Soo-geun’s question, “What was your home environment like when you were young?”and answered, “My father was angry.””When things didn’t go well, he took out his anger on us or often upset the dinner table.” Lee Soo-geun said, “If my family was stable and comfortable, I would live without worrying about my younger siblings and only worry about myself.” The storyteller, who burst into tears when comforted, confessed her current situation, saying, “My younger sister is currently living with my father and receiving treatment at a psychiatric center, and I am staying in a small room at a pizza restaurant where I work part-time in Seoul.” Seo Jang-hoon, who opened his mouth after hearing the sad situation of the storyteller, said, “You should live your life now,” and gave realistic advice to the storyteller, saying, “27 is not young, but you need money to take care of your younger brother.” He asked, “What did you originally want to do?” When the storyteller hesitated, Seo Jang-hoon gave sincere advice, saying, “You need to think carefully about what you want to do most.” It was said.The storyteller wiped away tears at Seo Jang-hoon’s warm advice, and Lee Soo-geun said, “Don’t fall for sweet words just because you’re having a hard time being left alone in Seoul,”and added, “Focus on your life and live hard.”Meanwhile, on this day’s broadcast, the story of a person who claimed that the couple’s relationship was not bad, but that the wife was asking for a divorce because of her mother-in-law was also broadcast.

The person who said that she got married despite her mother-in-law, who had opposed her by demanding proof such as a graduation certificate, moved from her newlywed home to her mother-in-law’s house to raise her children, but in August of this year, while raising her child, she briefly placed her child in an adult bed. He revealed that there was a fall accident in which the child fell off the bed while lying down, and to avoid his mother-in-law, who scolded him for over 30 minutes as if interrogating him by asking, “Did you want your child to get hurt?” , he left the child and his wife at his mother-in-law’s house and returned to live alone in their newlywed home.

Afterwards, on the day before Chuseok, he went to his mother-in-law’s house and talked about various things, and said that he was going to meet a friend in the neighborhood. He left the storyteller alone at home and went out with his mother-in-law, wife, and child, and 3 to 4 hours later, he accompanied the police. When the storyteller said that he had returned, the two Bodhisattvas were surprised and asked the reason, to which the storyteller replied, “My mother-in-law called the police because I did not go out, and we fought with the police for 30 minutes.”

To the storyteller who said, “I told my wife to go out, but she didn’t, so I got a KakaoTalk reply saying she called the police,” Seo Jang-hoon asked for an answer, “Did you tell me to go out again after my mother-in-law came in?” But when he kept saying different things, he said, “Stubborn. Are you strong? He was angry, saying, “You can’t communicate with us, so how can you communicate with your mother-in-law?”Seo Jang-hoon also said, “I talked about divorce through mutual consent when my wife and I stop hating each other more.””Wasn’t there a bad relationship between the couple to begin with? “Did you fight a lot?” he asked, but when the answer came back, “But it wasn’t like fighting,” he couldn’t hide his frustration, saying, “Who said fighting and fighting?” He raised his voice a few times and threw a water bottle in anger. Seo Jang-hoon asked the storyteller, who confessed that he had thrown her, “In the past, your wife said she would marry you even though she was against it at home, right?”But when she gave an odd answer, saying, “I gave her a lot of trust,”he ended up saying, “Hey! Stop talking about other things! He was once again very angry, saying, “I’m trying to give you advice!” Seo Jang-hoon, who had calmed down, said to the person who claimed that his wife decided to divorce because of her mother-in-law, “I talked to you today. There are some areas where communication is difficult. He said, “I don’t think I communicated well with my wife and my mother-in-law,”and asked him again if he didn’t want to lose his wife. In response to the storyteller’s complaint, “My wife is important, but my daughter is more important, and I’m angry because I’m afraid of losing my daughter,”he said, “Your heart is broken.””I understand, so think carefully and do as you wish,” he said. “If you want to do well again, ask for forgiveness from your family and persuade them, and if you don’t even have the heart left to do so, it would be better to separate cleanly.” KBS Joy broadcasts every Monday at 8:30 p.m.Online reporter Jang Jeong-yoon yunsuit@kyunghyang.com