“Hey C, stop talking nonsense” Seo Jang-hoon explodes with frustration at the story of a man who cannot communicate..”Mystery continues” [Synthesis]

[OSEN=Reporter Kim Soo-hyung] In ‘Ask Me Anything’, a man appeared saying that his wife was asking for a divorce because of her mother-in-law, but the two Bodhisattvas advised him to look into the problems between the couple, saying, “It’s entirely your opinion.” In particular, frustration was seen exploding at the storyteller who gave the wrong answer.

Story Yeon-nam appeared on KBS Joy’s entertainment show ‘Ask Anything’ that aired on the 15th, and he appeared with his child.

On this day, Yeonnam said, “My wife wants a divorce,” and “I am being forced to divorce even though I don’t want to because of my mother-in-law.” There is no problem with her wife. Story Nam expressed his position, saying, “The relationship between her and her husband is not bad.” She is a woman with a story that reveals her unfair and frustrated feelings. She seemed taken aback by her wife’s sudden request for divorce.

When asked about the time of marriage, the storyteller said, “We had a secret relationship due to the coronavirus, and my mother-in-law was suspicious of me,” and “she even asked for proof of my graduation certificate and even mobilized an errand center to find out about me.” Because of that incident, they were even asked to break up once. Sayeonnam said, “I could not give up on her wife, so I married her over her opposition.”

Sayeonnam said, “Fortunately, our relationship gradually recovered from the beginning, but in August of last year, while I was taking care of the baby with my mother-in-law without my wife, the baby fell.” “I hit the side of the bed. I was surprised too, but without even asking me, he scolded me as if he was interrogating me,” he recalled. Story Nam said, “I had to take the child to the hospital and continued to take care of her child, but my mother-in-law did not say that she had a hard time. Instead, she said bad things, asking if she wanted the baby to get hurt.”

When asked if he was currently living with his mother-in-law, the man said, “Before giving birth, I lived alone with my wife, but after giving birth, I started raising children at my mother-in-law’s house. After the fall accident, I live alone in the newlywed house, and my wife lives with my child at my mother-in-law’s house. A month later, my mother-in-law said, “I can’t contact you, so there’s nothing wrong with my wife,” he said.

And the man who said he went to see his mother-in-law before Chuseok said, “But my mother-in-law, my wife, and the three kids left, leaving me alone. I waited at the house for 3 to 4 hours, and then he came in with 4 police officers.” He added, “The house in my mother-in-law’s name was reported as a home invasion. “I was obviously told to come in, so I went in, but it was absurd,” he said. In the end, he got into a fight with the police and was kicked out.

In response, Seo Jang-hoon wondered, “If your strange-looking mother-in-law asked you to come in and called the police, shouldn’t you call your wife?” The man in the story said, “I wasn’t in a position to call my wife because I was tired.” At the same time, when he said, “My wife received a text message telling me to calm down and stay home. My wife told me to go out, but she didn’t go out and said I reported it,” Seo Jang-hoon tilted his head and said, “It’s a continuation of the mystery.”

In particular, Seo Jang-hoon asked the question again, saying, “Please, did I tell you to leave?”to the man who couldn’t catch the moment of the question and kept saying something else. When the storyteller said, “I told you to go out,” Seo Jang-hoon was frustrated, saying, “You’re so stubborn that you didn’t leave. You can’t communicate with us like this, so how can you communicate with your mother-in-law?” Seo Jang-hoon summarized the order of the story again, saying, “The order of your story is that you didn’t go out and the police were dispatched. If we only listen to your story, we can’t help but misunderstand. We need to tell you the facts accurately.”He also showed consideration for the child being held by others, saying, “Let’s leave the baby for a while because I don’t want to hear bad things about it.”

Anyway. The story is that her wife is currently in a situation where she wants a divorce by agreement. In response, Seo Jang-hoon shouted once again, “The biggest reason for the divorce was probably not the conflict with your mother-in-law. Please tell me exactly what your relationship was like.” The man in the story continued to remain silent. Seo Jang-hoon said, “Generally, if a husband is driven out, it is normal for the wife to follow, and isn’t that a bad relationship in the first place?” and said that there must have been a problem between the two.

In response, the man with the story said, “My wife said she got angry over something trivial, so we didn’t hit and fight,” and added, “I raised my voice, but I never swore harshly. I once got angry and threw a water bottle.” In response, Seo Jang-hoon said, “There is no problem with her wife, but didn’t she say divorce because of her mother-in-law?” and also pointed out the incoherent story. When Seo Jang-hoon once again said, “Even though you were against the marriage, didn’t your wife still get married?” the man in the story responded absurdly, saying, “I gave you a lot of trust,” and Seo Jang-hoon said, “Hey, stop talking nonsense. You’re trying to give me advice now,” he said in frustration. It exploded.

Seo Jang-hoon said, “Anyway, we got married despite the opposition. Her mother and her husband suddenly decide to divorce because of a fight? “That is entirely your opinion,” he said, adding, “Of course, there may be your mother’s influence, but rather than looking for the cause there, look back on what happened with her wife. You never raised your voice before marriage, right? “It will be traumatic for her wife,” he said. In response, the storyteller said, “But my wife has a family history,” and when he said something else incorrectly, Seo Jang-hoon said, “I’m sorry, but I’ll say it again. You mentioned throwing the water bottle. What kind of family are you talking about?” and “I’ve talked to you, but communication is difficult.” He pointed out, “I don’t think I communicated well with my wife and mother-in-law.”

I asked about his wishes for the future. When Sayeonnam gave a different answer from the question, saying, “I know that I am a poor person,” the two Bodhisattvas asked again. In response, Sayeonnam said, “I don’t want to divorce in vain. I want to not divorce, but I am so tired that I am half-hearted.” “I think I still love her, my wife is important, but my daughter is more important, because my daughter is the only one on my side,” he said. Regarding custody, he sighed, saying, “They handed over the documents as if to notify me that I am a wife’s family without consulting them, and I am angry because I am afraid I will lose my daughter.”

In response, the two Bodhisattvas said, “It looks like your wife has already decided to divorce. I understand your feelings. Think carefully and do as you want.” If you want to do well again, you must ask for forgiveness and persuade her. “It will be good for your own sake, and I hope you sort out your mind first before taking custody of the child,” he advised. /ssu08185@osen.co.kr