‘Divorce’ Jeong Dae-se, his name is Jeong ‘Routine’ Are you here? “A man who lives without paying attention” A word of advice [comprehensive]

[OSEN=Reporter Kim Soo-hyung] In ‘Decided to Divorce at least once,’ the couple Jeong Dae-se and Myung Seo-hyeon faced a close crisis after 10 years of marriage. Especially the wife, who took full responsibility for childcare and housework. In contrast, it was Dae-Hyeon Jeong’s confrontation where her own exercise routine was important.

Jeong Dae-se and his wife Myeong Seo-hyun appeared on MBN’s entertainment ‘virtual divorce observation reality’, ‘Decision to Divorce at least once’, which aired on the 21st.

The couple’s daily lives were revealed. 10-year-old son Jeong Tae-ju and 9-year-old daughter Jeong Jeong-ah were also introduced. He also introduced his dog, and his wife said, “This is our third child,” and even said that the dog was the first child. The youngest is her husband, Jeong Dae-se. Her wife said, “I am the youngest son who needs a lot of work,” and made her laugh by saying that her husband was lower in rank than the dog.

Regarding the reason, the wife said, “I gave up a lot of things to accommodate my husband’s very selfish personality,” and spoke about her devotion to her athlete husband. She even said that when she was on active duty she couldn’t lift anything heavy. He said it was because he had a lot of injuries. The wife said, “I spent a lot of time supporting my athlete husband and taking care of my two children alone. I am very tired from supporting my athlete husband for 10 years.” She added, “I expected my husband to announce his retirement.” .

The family retired and returned to Korea last year. Currently, Jeong Dae-se said that he has been living with his in-laws for 10 months. His wife said, “The children’s school, which was the most important thing in Korea, the monthly rent was too expensive,” and “But I was broke because I did not have yen or cash. Coincidentally, there was a school near my parents’ house that I wanted to send my children to. “I went to,” he said.

That evening, we all had time together. Her wife wanted to have a cozy meal with her family talking together, but Jeong Dae-se only looked at his cell phone. So much so that her daughter took away her cell phone. Jeong Dae-se said, “Don’t look at my phone,” and then responded to her wife’s words by saying, “Nagging again,” and her wife appeared to be at a loss for words. The panelists who saw this were concerned that “children will learn that kind of behavior.”

Then, Jeong Dae-se suddenly showed a physiological phenomenon where he farted at the head of the dinner table. Her wife said, “I hate it when I eat,” and Jeong Dae-se said, “It’s a physiological phenomenon.” Her wife responded, “I don’t understand why you want to show me a dirty look.” Jeong Dae-se appeared to be trying to change the atmosphere in his own way, saying, “I was just kidding. Children like it when I fart.” However, Kim Yong-man, who watched this on the monitor, expressed regret, saying, “A joke is only a joke if the other person accepts it.”

Also, Jeong Dae-se stood up first after eating. The panelists who saw this were surprised and asked, “Why does he wake up first when he’s having a family meal?”Yongman Kim was supportive, saying, “It’s probably because of his habits as a player,”but Yoonah Oh was curious, saying, “If you’ve been married for 10 years, wouldn’t you be in tune with your family?”

As soon as Jeong Dae-se ate, the place he headed to was, of course, the bed. We were eating and playing games. Her son discovered this, saying, “Dad, I’m playing games.” Her wife sighed deeply and said she was frustrated, saying, “I can’t get angry, I can’t speak.” However, Jeong Dae-se, who didn’t seem to notice her wife’s feelings, said, “I’m going to play screen golf,”and went out to exercise without even looking back at her. Her wife’s expression turned cold.

The panelists who watched this on the monitor expressed regret, saying, “It seems like the evening was ruined.” Jeong Dae-se then emphasized that his routine was broken, saying, “I had a routine, so if I didn’t go on time, I couldn’t go for a dog walk.” Then, the panelists who were watching the monitor were surprised and asked, “Is routine more important than family? Does that make sense during a family meal?” In response, Jeong Dae-se said, “I ask for her wife’s understanding,” but Kim Yong-man pointed out, “My wife doesn’t understand at all,” and Ryu Dam also said, “It’s not that she is quick to notice, but it seems like she lives without paying attention.”

That day, everything from waking up in the morning to going to bed was my wife’s responsibility. A wife who barely had time to herself after putting her children to bed. She looked particularly tired. There was silence in her living room. Just like that, Jeong Dae-se returned from her second workout at 10 p.m. Her wife said, “Look back at yourself from morning until now.” “Didn’t I ask you to wake the kids up in the morning?” she asked, explaining how she refused all of her wife’s requests in her self-centered life.

The wife exploded with complaints that had been building up, saying, “Isn’t childcare something we should do together?” Jeong Dae-se said, “It’s because we have a routine,” and, “Because exercise is hard, we should end the day quickly.” In response, the wife said, “Don’t you think I fit into your own routine? Don’t you have a routine of your own?” She exploded, saying, “I fit into the children’s routine,” and expressed her difficulties in raising children.

At the same time, the wife said, “The children are now 10 years old, and it is the time when they are growing up. During that precious time, when the children walk, run, and play, Jeong Dae-se focuses only on his soccer, so it was all up to me to raise the children.” . Her husband was not around the growing children because he was focused on soccer. She was a wife who had to fill the void left by her husband alone. It was a hardship for her wife that she passed away after 10 years.

The wife said, “Honestly, I thought I would be able to take care of things on my own after about six months of retirement,” and that she thought she would take care of the housework and raise children after retirement, but “I don’t think it is necessary to have a routine of exercising twice every day.” Then, Jeong Dae-se said that he had no respect for her exercise routine, saying, “That (you) don’t exercise much, so it has a big impact on your life.” However, if her wife also has her own time, she will exercise. There must have been room for it. In response, her wife reiterated that “she should share in the household chores as much as she sticks to her exercise routine.” /ssu08185@osen.co.kr