Shim Hyun-seop confesses, “I lost my father in the Aung San terrorist attack, and I am my mother’s guardian for the rest of my life” [Golden Counseling Center]

[My Daily = Reporter Seung-gil Lee] Comedian Shim Hyun-seop’s concerns are revealed on Channel A’s ‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center’.

Hyunseop Shim, a comedian who led the golden age of comedy in Korea. As soon as Shim Hyun-seop appears, he brightens up the atmosphere by revealing his ambition to “make Dr. Eun-young Oh the most funny among all the cast members.” Shim Hyun-seop then confesses his bitter worries, saying, “I am already a 53-year-old bachelor. I am afraid that I will be alone even at my 60th birthday.” He said that his ideal type does not matter whether he is a remarried woman or a woman with children, and that the impression of the other person is important. Dr. Eun-young Oh, who heard the concerns, added that one in ten people in their 50s are ‘twilight singles’ who have never been married like Hyun-seop Shim, adding that if she is single in her 50s, there is a high possibility that she will remain single for the rest of her life, adding to the seriousness of the concerns.

Shim Hyun-seop confesses that he has tried blind dates more than 100 times and that he has worked tirelessly to get married. Out of desperation, he even tried signing up for a marriage information company, but he shows his disappointment, saying that being a celebrity is a lower level job than he thought. Accordingly, MC Park Na-rae revealed the scorecard obtained from a marriage information company and surprised people by revealing that the score standards for men and women are different. For men, appearance scores 5 points out of 100, giving priority to ability and environment, while for women, appearance scores 40 points. MC Na-rae Park expressed shock by saying that her score was only 20 points.

Next, Park Na-rae holds an impromptu blind date to analyze the blind date failure of ‘Twilight Solo’ Shim Hyeon-seop. Shim Hyun-seop is a bit nervous for a moment when the blind date appears, but soon he takes control of the atmosphere and leads the conversation. However, when Shim Hyun-seop tries to use unreasonable personal techniques to lighten the mood, Dr. Oh Eun-young, who was watching the blind date with eagle eyes, catches the introverted side of Shim Hyun-seop’s nervous and rambling appearance. He doesn’t feel comfortable with her nervousness and tries to hide it, so he keeps making jokes.

In addition, Dr. Oh Eun-yeong analyzed the results of the preliminary test that although Shim Hyun-seop is a person with high vitality, he can become irritated if the other person cannot keep up with his vitality. Shim Hyun-seop, who sympathized with this, said that he had once asked someone sharply, “Are you thinking of something else?” when he saw someone who didn’t react much to his joke. He also revealed that when he was a radio DJ, he once got angry because a listener wasn’t paying attention to the phone call. surprises.

After hearing this, Dr. Eun-young Oh sharply asks Hyeon-seop Shim, “Are you sensitive to sound or is your attitude bothersome?” To this, Shim Hyun-seop responds that it is a matter of attitude. Dr. Oh Eun-young points out that, unlike Shim Hyun-seop, who pours all his heart and mental energy into the other person, he gets angry when the other person does not agree with him, saying, “If you did your best, that’s okay. The other person’s reaction is only up to you.” Provides bone-chilling advice. He agrees with the analysis, saying that Shim Hyun-seop focuses a lot of concentration when performing a joke, and that he gets angry without realizing it if he thinks something is interfering with it. Then, Dr. Eun-young Oh analyzes that Hyun-seop Shim seems to value making people laugh more than anything else, and wants to find out more about why he is obsessed with laughter.

Shim Hyun-seop, lost in thought for a moment, confesses that in the past, he was unable to make his mother laugh. He tells the story of having to take care of his mother for 12 years, and honestly reveals that it was so difficult that he ran away from the hospital five times. Dr. Oh Eun-young, who could not help but feel sad, analyzed that if caregiving continues for a long period of time, there is a high possibility of experiencing ‘caregiver burnout’. In addition, it is said that the family members who take care of the patient sometimes become the second patient, and it comforts the pain that Shim Hyun-seop must have endured alone for a long time.

Dr. Oh Eun-young then points out that Shim Hyun-seop lived as his mother’s guardian, raising the possibility that he may have had difficulty comfortably accepting the warm love his parents gave him. In order to find out the reason, she asks about Shim Hyun-seop’s father. Accordingly, Shim Hyun-seop reveals his shocking past of losing his father in the ‘Aung San terrorist incident’ at a young age, when he was in the first year of middle school, arousing the sorrow of the families at the counseling center. Indeed, you can find out why Shim Hyun-seop became obsessed with laughter and what Dr. Oh Eun-young’s special solution is through today’s broadcast. ‘Oh Eun-young’s Gold Counseling Center’ airs at 8:10 pm on the 19th.